Phase 5 Xendit: Stages 1-7 (XENDIT_ENABLED=false; Stage 8 pending creds)

Backend
- payment_sessions → payment_requests rename across DB schema + 29 files
- payment.service.js becomes product-agnostic owner: EventEmitter +
  Xendit wrapper + requestPayment / confirmPayment public API; legacy
  aliases retained for existing chat callers
- Webhook handler at POST /api/shared/payment/webhooks/xendit, with
  constant-time token verification (8 vitest cases)
- Server-driven pairing: payment.service emits
  payment_request.confirmed → pairing subscriber starts the blast.
  Legacy POST /chat/request still works during the cutover.
- Reconciliation sweeper extended (re-emits events for confirmed rows
  with no chat session)
- SIGTERM drain + startup reconciliation pass in server.js

Customer app
- waiting_payment_screen opens xendit_invoice_url via
  LaunchMode.inAppBrowserView
- searching / no-bestie / targeted-waiting / pairing-notifier updated
  to consume the new payment_request_id contract
- pending_payments_provider + bestie-unavailable dialog migrated

Dev / testing
- XENDIT_ENABLED=false is the safe default; .env.example documents the
  four new vars
- backend/.dev/xendit-fake-webhook.sh exercises the handler without
  ngrok
- 90/92 backend tests pass (two pre-existing session-timer flakes,
  unrelated); client_app analyzer clean
- requirement/phase5-xendit-plan.md is the canonical reference

Stage 8 (live E2E) blocked on Xendit test-mode keys. The dashboard's
single-webhook-URL constraint will be worked around via a self-poll
script next session.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

client_app/lib/features/payment/screens/payment_method_screen.dart

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ import '../../../core/theme/widgets/halo_button.dart';
 import '../state/payment_draft_provider.dart';
 
 /// "Cara bayar" — QRIS-first list of payment methods. On tap of `bayar`:
-/// 1. POST `/api/client/payment-sessions` with the draft + chosen method.
+/// 1. POST `/api/client/payment-requests` with the draft + chosen method.
 /// 2. Push `/payment/waiting/:paymentId`.
 class PaymentMethodScreen extends ConsumerStatefulWidget {
   const PaymentMethodScreen({super.key});
@@ -72,7 +72,7 @@ class _PaymentMethodScreenState extends ConsumerState<PaymentMethodScreen> {
       };
       // Trailing slash matches the existing payment_notifier path — Fastify
       // is not configured with `ignoreTrailingSlash`.
-      final response = await api.post('/api/client/payment-sessions/', data: body);
+      final response = await api.post('/api/client/payment-requests/', data: body);
       final data = response['data'] as Map<String, dynamic>;
       final paymentId = data['id'] as String;
       ref.read(paymentDraftNotifierProvider.notifier).setPaymentId(paymentId);